The more I read this thread and the more I see folks pick apart the creepy parts of the lawyer's e-mail, the more convinced I'm becoming that this man is a probably a stalker, and if my suspicions are correct, knowledge of the proper and safe way to break all contact with a stalker permanently will be invaluable. Please pick up a copy of Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear, and read up on stalking behavior and how to put a safe end to it. That way, you can judge for yourself what's truly going on here.