After a text from xabf this morning , i packed remainder of his belongings and left them on drive to be collected . He duly arrived , took his gear and loaded it into his works van which he left at house on friday when he left. I did mention in a texted reply that he could have his computer euipment etc once he'd settled all outstanding bills and any covering period he was here. Not a happy bunny and i was called a b**** for my sins . What has really upset me is not the name calling but the way in which he took his things without so much as a backward glance , and obviously he hasn't been drinking otherwise he would not have driven (never has DUI ) .For 6 weeks or more he's been drunk every weekend , walked everywhere but the weekend he leaves , he's not .... I dont Get It !!! So upset right now , I just want to cry .