I worried myself into angina and finally a heart attack over the A who did whatever and didn't have a care in the world. Sure he may be in some strife, and he could be enjoying spending that money, meanwhile you are the one who is left in the dark.
He may not be best pleased if he is suddenly snaffled by the police, but hey, what else could you do if he just pulls a disappearing stunt and no heart medication.
I hope he comes home to a rousing reception, that you can then cease wondering if he's ok, and get yourself right in to the necessary bits and pieces of getting your own place at last.
God bless