Welcome to the SR family!
Thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself. It's nice to meet you! You will find information and support for yourself here.
Are you doing the right thing?
Did you remove the chaos of active alcoholism from your home? Yes? Good on you!
Are you taking the focus off alcohol and putting it back on your own life? Yes? Good on you!
Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed. I am always finding wisdom in the sticky (permanent) posts at the top of the forum.
This is from a sticky post and contains steps that have worked for us:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html