Guys like your boyfriend are the precise reason I work out like a madman and eat healthy and try to stay fit.
I will be 70 when my daughter is 21, and I promise you I will gladly go up side ANY 36 yo's head that tries to "date" my daughter.
Your boyfriend is a predator. How do I know, you may ask?
Because that is what I was when I was 36 and "dating" 21 yo girls.
Where is your dad?
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote