I agree with what everyone has said in reply, I went through the same situation with my wife and stuck it out only to make my life miserable for 16 years.......in fact I will be putting up a post about the impending results of my decision shortly here in forums. My advice is she will not stop drinking until she hits her bottom no matter what you say or do, for some alcoholics this could be as little as losing a job because of thier drinking, for others bottom can be far far worse. I would get out of the relationship, this may be the bottom she needs, but save yourself and your sanity first. That sounds selfish, but you have done all that you can do from the way it sounds.