This whole thread made me smile. And I know it is because you are handling things so well Akrasia. My hat is off to you. None of what you are doing is easy, as I guess we all know.
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Please keep posting. You are inspiring.
Naive, you really are good. My ex ABF said, after I caught him sneaking and drinking, "Have I lost you? If not, that will be my motivation. I will never drink again! I love you too much to lose you."
Translation: "I am going to have to be alot more sneaky to get my drinking over on you!"
And thank you everyone here at SR very much. Time was, not too long ago, I would not be chuckling while typing that exchange.