If your new in this relationship than I would take caution. Somtimes you can fall in love and then can't see any futher into the relationship that will take you into a sink hole. Use your smarts. Is it really that important to be with this guy? I know he may be nice now. But sometime friends stick around alot longer than you. If you were important then he should be willing to do what it takes to respect you. KEY WORD....RESPECT. You can'thave Jekyll and Hyde. You sound smart enough to know the difference. IF it's early in the relationship then you might want to rething it. That's just my two cents. Good luck.