Originally Posted by
PurpleSquirrel 
My own 2 cents:
I bet if you ask any man if it is OK for him to have an open relationship, he will be all for it. But if you ask him if it is OK for his wife/girlfriend to do the same, he would go ballistic. JMHO....
I've known plenty of women who stepped out on their husbands, so it's certainly not a gender thing. And I'll bet they wouldn't have been okay with their husbands doing the same thing.
But I agree with your premise. What's good for the goose isn't always what the goose wants for the gander.