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Anyway I'm just wondering about accepting a sober-ified, good-provider, otherwise responsible husband who simply could not be faithful to one woman. In light of the statistics on cheating, it seems like it would be helpful to be able to accept it. Anyone here able to? Anybody else ever think about this?
As Jen said, it's an entirely personal thing. However, I don't base my personal values on statistics. I don't care if 90% of men cheat, I don't have to accept it.
If, in your own cost/benefit analysis, the good outweighs the bad, then you are entitled to make whatever decision is best for you. But the thought that I might as well accept infidelity because chances are slim of finding someone capable of monogamy just doesn't sit well with me.
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