Advice please!
I just recently moved in with my boyfriend. I knew that he liked to drink beer, but not every single day. Last weekend, he went out drinking with some friends of his. I didn't want to go along because one of the women that goes with them is a troublemaker and she doesn't like me. She is always trying to cause us problems. I have asked him to please stop hanging around with this woman but he insists that I'm being paranoid. When he got home he was very drunk and he started being nasty. He was yelling about stupid things and was making me very nervous. I know he would never hit me, but his words were very painful.
I know that he will never quit drinking and he will never give up these people that he likes to drink with. I don't know what to do. Should I insist that he choose between me and them? Should I leave? I hate being around him when he's drunk. He is so good to me when he's sober, but it's a different story when he's drunk. Please give me some advice!