hi
i just joined this board myself and i feel for you - our circumstances are similar but my AH doesn't hide it from me. I'm due on halloween with our 2nd - first is 3. and the stress of the impending birth is causing him to regress. not sure what i can do to convince that he needs help - i know nothing will help unless he reaches that point in realizing he needs help. i read another post on here about alcohol causing the person to basically revert back to a teenager and thats really how it feels in my house. don't have any advice, but seems like that is alot of helpful people on here. .