HurtingAgain, I am so sorry for your pain too. Please stick around, so many of us have been through this, its part and parcel of living with an unreasonable, disrespectful AH. It was the only time in my life that I ever 'wailed' an inconsolable cry in front of my then 16 and 18yr old daughters when I found out, so I know how gut renching it is. Time is a great healer.