thank you! the memory of reliving it is making my skin crawl too. it is so sad. I just got a phone call from him saying he owes me many amends and will not be doing those sort of thoughtless things to me again! i thanked him and said goodbye. It really isn't even my business anymore. i just want to be safe until i can leave. that is all i ask....sure hope i can get it.
thanks for the reply....