Any time you feel like you have to tiptoe on eggshells, something isn't right.
If you can't at least discuss things equally when you want and need to in a forthright manner then this is an unbalanced relationship.
I am someone who has always taken ALOT of time to myself, way more than most people and I am not going to change....but my partner can and should be able to address whatever they want or need to with me and I can and do tell him what is going on with me.
Trust, honesty and respect is key.
If you are uneasy, there is a reason...perhaps you don't feel that it is full and mutual with the elements I just spoke of?