Originally Posted by
BklynGrl 
I can relate, except in addition to blaming me and the fact that I'm always in a bad mood, he blames his thyroid. Except he's never even been diagnosed with thyroid issues. We barely have contact too and it really is the best thing. Yesterday was a rare day when we talked to just a couple of minutes about our cats and I almost had an outer body experience where I could hear myself talking to him. But my voice wasn't my voice I sounded like a dead person. It was very enlightening. Just remember one day at a time.
Ah yes - if only I had been a Stepford Wife and could have been laid back and happy all the time we would have had such a wonderful life. If only I was a robot with no emotions or needs at all.
We haven't actually spoken voice to voice in over 5 weeks - all our conversations have been typed on MSN. The last time I spoke with him was the last time I saw him. It was absolutely horrid from his side and it was very very minimal indeed from mine. He hasn't even given me a postal address.