hahaha, now that you mention it, i can't be sick or "under the weather" without my AH having some sort if issue too. it was like a "let's see who is worse off" competition, hahaha.....glad i won't have to do that anymore. if i was not feeling well, which didn't happen very often i had to take care of myself and if he didn't feel well, then i had to take care of him. amazing the things a person (meaning me) will do to get approval and love. I need to do for me, what i was doing for him.....and I am!!