(((((Steve)))))
GREAT ADVICE ABOVE!!!!!!
Answers to questions 1 thru 4:
1. NO
2. NO
3. NO
4. NO
NO CONTACT.
You do not need to explain, that is just an EXCUSE on your part to see her again.
She will contact you when she is clean and sober and will try before she is.
NO CONTACT
J M H O but it works best for YOU and for her also in the long run.
Love and hugs,