Ah says that he plans on moving away next month
BULL can you say MANIPULATION in play STILL????
Go ahead with your divorce, IF and that is a big IF he follows through with recovery (right now doesn't sound like he has learned much yet) there is nothing that says you two cannot, down the road, get back together.
"Moving away" is a MAJOR CHANGE that is FROWNED on the first year of recovery. You stick with the meetings and the sponsor you have started with.
Please stop 'double guessing' yourself. Go forth with your plans for YOUR RECOVERY.
J M H O
Love and hugs,