Old 09-21-2010, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by SlvrMag View Post
I have a question and didn't know if I should start a thread so I'll ask here.

What do I say when someone is having rough times and others are sending prayers? I often say that 'you will be in my thoughts' but I feel like that may not be enough? It makes things kinda awkward for me because I can't find the right comforting words.

Offering comfort to someone is awkward no matter what. For most situations I say "You're in my thoughts." Usually it's best to keep it simple. I've also heard "All the best," "Go in peace," or "I'm sorry for your trouble." As far as it not being enough, all an offer to pray for someone really is, in terms of actions taken, is an offer to think about them. So why should "You're in my thoughts" not be enough?

Now... if someone could explain why I feel compelled to say "bless you" when someone sneezes? LOL
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