she went to the meeting today. has to go back tomorrow for the follow up interveiw and to see about detox. if she can get into detox the bed will be available in ny. so, my question is, at this juncture, what do i do? i know i am not her saviour or anything like that, but i do not feel right about detaching at this point. i know she leans on me and at least feels better knowing i am there for her. i cannot let her stay at my house, but want ot help in any way to make sure she gets there at 11am. Since she has been back out on the streets i have let her spend a night with me at my place. she has no placeto go. i know she will find a place to lay her head, but if she gets all doped up, she may spend the night somewhere where she canot getto the place. yes, that would be her fault, but when she is doped up, she sometimes makes some bad choices. so, i guess in a way i do wantto hold her hand to get there tomorrow, but from a distance.