Welcome to SR! You will find a lot of supportive and understanding people here. Sadly, it will get worse if he does not decide he wants to get better; I don't want to sound harsh, but that's the reality of the situation--he has to decide how much is enough for him before he decides to change. That does not mean that you have to live with his actions and choices, though...there are ways to make living with and interacting with an alcoholic more bearable. Keep posting here...sending you hugs.