hi Exhausted and
to SR. This is a great place to find support.
I'd venture to say that if YOU feel he drinks too much, then there's a problem with your marriage. I know how it feels to doubt yourself and wonder if you're right. That's the reason I first came to SR...looking for some validation. Eventually, I learned that there was indeed a problem because *I* had a problem with the drinking.
Have you considered going to Al-Anon?
Please keep posting and reading. SR is always open!