GO TO AL ANON meetings NOW, go at least 6xs...if one group you dont like, find another....
THIS is his responsiblity to get RECOVERY...he is gonna WANT IT...
IN THE MEAN TIME......
YOU go for yourself...
all you need to know it this at first:
THE 3 C'S
1. YOU did not cause this
2. YOU can not control this
3. YOU can not cure this...