Originally Posted by
jackthedog 
The AH's influence on my son is not good. I am afraid if I kick my AH out, my son will be mad at me, but why? Why am I worried about that?
Take it from someone who was in your son's shoes: He may act a little upset and frightened at first, but he will VERY QUICKLY thank you in his heart, even if he doesn't say it out loud. When I say very quickly, I mean, probably within a week he'll start feeling better about himself--that is, if your son is anything like I was when I was his age and my mom made the courageous decision to live a healthy life and kick my dad out.
This was back in the 60s when divorce carried a huge stigma, not to mention she was Catholic. But she did the right thing--I know that from how happy I was throughout my high school life.