If there's ONE thing I've learned in this journey of ______________ (gosh!...I don't quite know what to call it......LOLOL
Well, that ONE thing is that all these terms, and phrases, and whatevers.....they're all subjective; period; the end.
.......and I get to define them for me, and for nobody else. (ie's......: if someone says that he/she is sober, it's not up to me to say otherwise, although, if it were me I might not call myself sober under the same circumstances......; I don't get to 'judge' someone else's 'quality of sobriety/recovery' except as it refers to me---I might or might not consider myself to have 'quality sobriety/recovery under similar circumstances......; etc., etc., etc., ad infinitum................
So......happy journey y'all...............
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NoelleR