missphit

thanks so much for this thread and all the replies...i'm living it and finally making the decision to get off the ride! I too finally realize "If someone is unreliable, mean, abusive, dangerous - that's all I need to know - doesn't matter one iota if it is because of alcohol or drugs! behavior shows me all I need to know. thank you B, I needed to see that and it reaffirms my thinking. My AH is trying everything to attempt to stop me from going and i wish i was gone, but now i've made him so angry he has finally left me alone. I can't wait to be done with all this. Welcome Gearhead....thanks for this thread and for all who replied!!