Kiki,
He has no job, no car , no license, no friends (he lived with them all and burned bridges).
once, i set him out and he had to go to a homeless shelter for a few months. it was so hard, to put family out on the street. a friend rescued him- wish he hadn;t - maybe he would have done more for his future by now.
i need for him to go. he wants to live on his own, and I PRAY for that day, but it aint gonna happen right away, cause he has nothing.
so, yes, it is scary. i want him out, if he wanted to take off now, with only a back pack, and the clothes on his back, i'd wish him well, and be glad that he had that much courage and gumption. but he is depressed about having to go, and about having no one else . he does not see his own potential, but time will tell what he is made of.
thanks for your concern- i appreciate it so much.
chicory