Going to a bar with an alcoholic is a recipe for disaster.
I know. It's the only thing he wants to do besides see concerts or sports events which are expesive. He no longer likes to spend time with friends etc.
I've told him he can leave and I mean it. I would be fine. It would take some time and I'd have to go back to work, but I'd be Ok.
When he was ranting, I should've set my boundaries and said I won't talk to you when you're like this. We can talk about it later when you're more calm.
It's the day to day life that gets me, when you should just be acting normal, but can't because you feel like crying. I guess I should just keep to myself during these times.