((((HUGS)))) I'm sorry you are still dealing with this. The thing is, the situation is not going to get better and the longer you are living this way, the more it spirals downward. His move-out date is getting closer and of course, it is causing pressure for both of you. What has he done about finding a place to live? What has he really done about finding a job? Does he get up every morning, shower, put on clean clothes and head out looking for work? Has he shown any progress in attempting to make plans for himself?
What is going to happen on October 1st?