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Old 09-17-2010, 05:39 PM
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cqf
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i have been in therapy. several years now...

as you have suggested, bolina...i don't think i can do it. let me rephrase that. i can do whatever it is i have to do...but, i don't want to. i don't think i can just let her be. i realize that she has stuff to work out, but...leaving her be. i don't know. i can be her friend, though. and want to...the lover part, well...those moments are few and far between. four kids will do that to a love life.

what babyblue has said resonants the most with me. i definitely have to detach. which, i know that i have not been. which is also why i think i'm here.
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