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I understand the desire for sex (as an alcoholic woman). I needed to know that no matter how I behaved (drunk, lies, rants, needs) I was desireable and loveable. Sex with my husband made me feel desireable and loveable. It meant that no matter how crappy I treated him, I wasn't that bad.
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