I have a good support system, however, it is hard to talk with people about our situation that have never been there.... Right now, all I can do is concentrate on my children but where do I go from here?
Have you considered a face to face recovery program, like Al-anon, Nar-anon, Celebrate Recovery? Everyone here can relate to you on some level, and face to face support can add a lot to the journey.
Your husband doesn't have to come home. There are sober living homes, halfway houses, and the Salvation Army (its free, too).
Where do
you need and want to go from here?