Oh you can post every single detail here all right. Lord knows I've done it. You'll get help here too, all you can handle, we're codependent, remember, we LOVE helping others
now he says he's having second thoughts and doesn't want to go with his family. I know this is because we've been together 11 years, and staying seems easier than leaving. He's not very good at difficult things or new things.
I don't know the WHY of why A's do this, but you'll see this story over and over again. Naive is pretty good at translating alcoholic speak, maybe she'll show up and help us. I think the real issue is that they don't believe we mean it. So we have to show them.
Please keep posting. It helps me, that's for sure.