Thread: I'm so lost...
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Old 09-11-2010, 04:09 PM
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peachblueberry
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A guy who does that doesn't deserve a second chance from you, no matter how sorry he claims to be, or even how sorry he is! I've tried giving second chances to cheaters, and they don't ever change. If he knew how wrong it was and how sorry he'd be, he wouldn't have chanced it in the first place.

I used to live with this guy I met in college, because we dated in college and then I gave him a second chance after he had cheated on me extensively with his ex. Same story in that he eventually lost both of us. I shouldn't have given him a second chance. He had a drinking problem and a drug abuse problem as well, and to this day, he owes me money I know I will never see again because I was the only one of the two of us that could hold a job.

Drop him. Please, drop him. He'll do it again and be just as "sorry".
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