I haven't even moved yet! He is convincing me AND MY SON that we should move in within 3 weeks from now. His sponsor tells us that we should be working on this WHILE LIVING TOGETHER. The therapist that I mentioned above is someone we have gone to together... only twice now. She said those words, that he is a master-manipulator/liar right there in front of him. He says he is seeking help from his sponsor and that he will fix whatever went wrong. I'm afraid to tell ANY of my family or friends.. as they are going to tell me the same things that everyone here has said.