I have been begging God, with tears, for a long time to explain how my AH could have done what he has done. The magnitude of the deceit and betrayal is numbing, isn't it? I have only one piece of advice: NEVER trust him again. NEVER
You don't ask God why there's a snake in the garden do you? Or a scorpion in the cellar. You say, "Oh, there's a scorpion or Oh, there's a snake." You recognize the danger and you avoid it. Do it now -- don't imagine God has a mission for you with this man.