Thank you
Thanks everyone! It is so hard to distinguish between whether he is an alcoholic or not. But I know if it interferes with our relationship, and he doesn't want to change, he must be. My counselor said to tell him that I need him to stop drinking and using or I will ask him to leave soon (and not give him a specific timeframe). I am starting Al-Anon asap with my best friend who's son is an addict. I just have to find the strength to tell him to leave even though we don't have the extra money for him to get an apartment. He is a big boy, he can find a place to stay. Maybe he should go back to his mother, as I am tired of being one for him. Thanks for the prayers and I will pray for all of you too!