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So, he's pointing out that YOU have the problem, so YOU need to go get help. Boy oh boy, I remember that.
Well, he's right in a way. You have a problem with his problem. So, he obviously isn't done yet akrisia. He's not done with the alcohol.
I guess you have to decide if you are. I was, I couldn't take one more minute with the damage alcohol had caused my AH. If, as we've been talking about in another thread, the erratic and crazy behavior is due to the damage alcohol did to my AH's brain...well, I couldn't live with the abusive repercussions of that. I left.
This doesn't have to be permanent, if you do decide to separate yourself from the insanity. He might very well eventually decide that he is done with alcohol. Stranger things have happened.