Please know that NONE of this, NONE of his behavior is your fault.
Remember the Three C's:
You did not Cause it
You cannot Control it, and
You cannot Cure it.
for rite now that is all you need to remember...and that this is HIS problem...HIS responsilbity...
GET OUT and now, set boundaries and STICK WITH THEM!!! that is what they are there for...
these wonderful ladies can tell you...the wasted time and energy with the A's in their lives...but are here now to SHARE their stories