Originally Posted by
barb dwyer 
I'm not sure I'm understanding the situation ... or the question.
but... dang.
That's some family you got there.
I want to see the family member paid off. I don't want to jeapordize payment. But I want the debtor to deal with his problems directly. He takes family assistance of anykind including simple errands for granted at this point. He simply doesn't get it, it about him but I guess that kind of selfish behavior is normal for the addictive/abusing types.