Hi Goodenough!
My RAH is now 15 months sober, after a nice rock bottom.
And I'll tell you it is nice not to be verbally bashed on the regular. Isn't that one of the main reason why we leave in the first place? If they were all sweet and buttery while drunk there wouldn't be a problem.
Taking out his pain and fear on you is never ok.
It sounds to me that he has a long way to go before he is able to return to his life with you.
Start believing you deserve better
