update- sons dad emailed me back, and said that all fines and charges against son were dropped.
I hope that son appreciates this break.
This is good, for me. Will make it much easier, to let go, knowing that he has a clean slate to start with, as far as financial obligations. I noticed that he mailed in some of his medical stuff yesterday. that was an improvement on the nothing he was doing before.
hugs,
chicory