Sad to say, but there are big differences in the quality of care doctors provide. I just had a thought reading your post: Why not write down the times you've talked to doctors/treatment centers/whatever, and make a record of things they've said and done. If something comes up in the future, you'll have that to refer to.
Remember to take care of yourself (and your sobriety) first. Try to get some time to rest and find something relaxing to do that will take your mind off of this each day.