block 'em.
fb is crap when it comes to this kind of mind game stuff.
When I signed on,
I went through and found my exes
(and a few others I want NO contact with)
... and blocked 'em.
Now they can't see me - and I don't have to see them.
Of course it hurts.
To not be hurt would not be human.
At the same time -
we need to know who our friends are.
And who our friends ... aren't.
I'm sorry to see anyone hurt by people they trusted.
I'm also happy to see people move on.
Let's move on!!