Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Well, if you think he'll leave if you ask him to, then why don't the two of you just talk about it? As I see it, you have two choices...either have him move out and you live in your apartment, or, he continues to live there and you find your own place. The first step would be to talk to him.
That's the plan, just waiting for him to wake up from his drunken stupor. In the meantime i'm heading to the bank to open an account under only my name. i'll update later.