The evidence of my powerlessness was all around me. It's tougher to see that from the Al-Anon perspective.
I believe evidence of my powerlessness is how I keep feeling the same feelings over and over again after a specific action and can't seem to be able to move from there.
Also as a another post reminded me - evidence of powerlessness, when I constantly feel let down by others who are supposedly "close to me". When I give a lot and see nothing in return, yes, that is my evidence. When I don't get a break. And yes it very tough to see, at least for me, compared to the alkie's destruction.
Phineas: perhaps you could post your question here
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