Again a heartfelt thank you for all the support and wisdom.
I know my son needs some hard lessons to change, and I need to keep that in my mind.
i have begun getting his things together, and am planning to tell him that he cannot come back here.
After worrying about him and trying to help for so long, it is hard to keep frantic activity out of my head.
I keep thinking even stupid things like "can he have a smoke there? He will go crazy. then i think of others who choose to go without, in order to quit.
I need help, to figure out why I am so caught up in trying to protect him.
I am trying to figure out how to have some peace of mind today, at work.
Maybe the serenity prayer? That just popped into my head.
Guess that is what I will hold onto today
hugs,
chicory