Chicory, you need this time away from him, and talking to him on the phone would only make you feel worse. He is safe where he is and he has to learn that actions have consequences. You have done all you can do for him. Now, it's time for him to start doing for himself and it's time for you to start taking care of yourself. As badly as you feel right now about him being arrested, it just could be the start of something better. ((((HUGS))))