he had warrants for failure to pay fines, for the offense of possession of a cig of pot that someone gave him, for his birthday , which he was celebrating in his home- his car in a parking lot.
he has never hit me, but it is obvious that his anger has escalated, due to being a dry drunk- that sounds very much like what he is. (Tally- You have hit it on the head)
He just called me from the jail. my phone wont accept collect calls, and they gave my a number to set up for acceptance. it costs 35$ to set it up , or, I could call and buy him a phone card. I do not know if I should do this or not. he has a cell phone but they wont let him use it there. I guess.
accepting advice, and appreciating the help.